I hate wasting anyone’s time, and you always know me that I’ll get straight to the point and make what I share with you straight to the heart, practical, and actually shift the needle on what’s important to you when it comes to turning up the dial on Hot Sex, Love and Closeness.
And the ones who take the big risks, are the ones who reap the greatest rewards.
And so.. if you’re having sex or love making this week…and you’re noticing.. meh.. it could be more.. more pleasurable, more fulfilling, more satisfying.. I DARE you to make this move and just watch what happens.
What I’m talking about is the power of a WITNESS.
You see, 100% of my couples or individual clients who struggle with this, feel alone. The obstacles are alone. The vulnerabilities are alone. The pain is left all alone.
Even from their partners.
And from themselves.
But when you turn towards your partner…and yourself,
And are truly transparent about the obstacle
And truly vulnerable
And truly undefended
And name it
HUGE SHIFTs happen!
It the power of a witness
– who sees you
– who loves you
– who supports you
– who has your back
– who wants your pleasure to be fully alive
– who wants you to be fulfilled
And who you feel safe with..
will help establish connection, support and a sense of BEING WITH you, right in this place…
This is what creates huge shifts. I saw this at least five times this week.
And sometimes the witness to someone sharing their biggest obstacles was the partner, sometimes it was me witnessing and guiding the partner to share the obstacle..Sometimes it was the person, acknowledging themselves in the embrace of my deep and loving presence and sensitive, attuned container. No matter which configuration, people were seen, inner parts were seen, difficult things got seen. Aloneness and loneliness got reduced. And this resulted in reduced reactivity, clearing, healing and more flow inside of them and in their relationships.
All ways.. the result was GOLDEN.
I mean, you could stay stuck here beloveds, or you could truly let the support in.. and believe me, I know it’s not easy.. but you can do it.. you must…
And you will, because you are meant for glorious, holy, OMG sex…
You get to have it.. yes, you do.. if you DARE..
So tell me.. or even, better, tell you.. what’s ONE way, you’re going to set yourself up for success this week, so you can be witnessed. For me, I feel the need to have a good cry to release some old pain I’ve been carrying around this.. and share with my beloved all about it. I know that will feel good.
How about you.
