Sometimes we’ve got to flip the tricky relationship situations on their head.
We can be too smart for love.. and then miss the boat and go ‘WTF just happened there..’
- in a difficult moment
- or month
- or even in a year.. {{ you’d be surprised how often people wait this long or longer!}}
So if you’re feeling the itch right now for:
- greater love between you,
- for holy OMG love…deeper love
- or healing love
Here’s what you can practice.
And you can do it over and over until you feel an aha.. or peace or calm, don’t worry, it comes pretty quickly.
Ready?
Choose the one area that’s in trouble right now.
Speak it out loud.. to yourself and your partner.
And simply ask.
What would love DO?
Over and over.
Keep asking. And listening.
In the middle of the night.. after a bad fight.. ask.. what would love do.. and for many of my clients.. here is what LOVE said..which changed everything…
“So sorry you’re going through this..what might help?”
“How is your body responding… what do you need?”
“Where do you really need me the most?”
Ask kindly, sincerely and answer honestly.
And notice what you find.
Because you will find something the moment you are no longer content to only search for, but never find.
Cause you’re deciding it’s freaking TIME.
And when you do.. you will grow love, your capacity to experience it… your ability to be open for it.. and create vital neural pathways that recondition all the problems that seem outside of love to be found IN love…
But you’ve got to do the practice…
And if you do..the true land or real love will open up for you
And I SO want you to have this love.. it’s seriously the best.. and really, what are you waiting for beloveds so that you can grow the Hot Sex, Love and Closeness that you desire? Even if it seems far away right now.. or not even possible..
You’ve got to start somewhere…
And sometimes.. and if you’re here.. that’s like right now.
So name your commitment this week to practicing what love says…right where you desire it most….
So you can get going…
get the new love muscles in gear…
and growing, healing, repairing, deepening..
and on to bigger loving than ever before…
Hot Sex, Love and Closeness are just right around the corner for you if you’re on this..
And you are..
