One of the things I love about being a parent, is that my children let me know very directly what they need, how they need it, and exactly when they need it by. Sometimes I can do really well with responding to it, and sometimes I fail. And when I fail I like to repair,…
We have been covering the subject of how in your family life to deal with repair, attunement, emotional overwhelm and creating specialness rituals in your family unit. And it’s not easy because I know you’re busy so I’m going to get straight to the point. The word ‘re’, literally means to do again and the…
That was really fun on our live stream yesterday. I love it when people give themselves the gift of being able to take five minutes and get the things that are going to catapult them into love, sex, and closeness, even while being parents. Why? Because so often, what I hear from my clients and…
There’s such a palpable sweetness that happens when you’re sitting in the room with clients or working with them and the issue of repair, attunement and regulation comes up. You know, the number one job of parents is to help their children feel emotionally regulated which is very difficult when we haven’t learned to do…
I want to really share with you, that I wasn’t the best at having parenting be easy for me. While I was born with a lot of ability to be a good mother, learning how to do the partnership dance with my husband, and sorting out the necessary inner resources that were required to have…
Let’s not pretend, we’re all going to get into conflict with our beloved. It might not happen very often or maybe it happens more than you wish. And so the next time it happens, in order to create the closeness, connection and intimacy that you desire, we’re going to start with yourself. When you feel…
I’ve been saying all week, the number one complaint I hear from couples is one of disconnection. Some of the things I hear are; I’m just not feeling connected as I want to be, What’s the problem, is it mine or his? What can I do to feel more connected? Maybe I shouldn’t be in…
You say you truly desire and need the delicious intimacy and closeness that is so yummy you wish someone would package it up in a little love bottle and you could have it just like that.. I’ve got the next best thing.. not bottled.. but actually out of the bottle, no more mystery.. straightforward for…
If you want to feel close to your beloved, you have to work at taking the steps that make the connection happen. So the next time, you want to feel close and connected, and it’s been not as much of a connecting time for you, or you both, I want you to try this instead….
Sometimes clients walk in and straight away I can feel the energy that is preventing them from having the closeness and intimacy that they desire and need. When I look deep into their eyes, I can see the possibility of what they most desire.. and then the road to healing it becomes possible. Like Tina…