Sometimes my couples get into a rut. They’ve cleared away a lot of the triggers, but there are some pernicious little buggers that seem to resurface just when people think the coast is clear. You’re having a nice Sunday at the beach, followed by a great lunch, maybe a glass of wine…and there it comes…..
So often couples have an idea of the trigger, they know something bothers them more than it should, but it keeps repeating over and over again. Ya know? They’ve worked so hard to get in touch with what’s causing the blow up or fight, but STILL not at the bottom of it to actually stop…
When we can acknowledge how our kids can trigger the EFF out of us, we can finally get closer to reclaiming parts of ourselves, or our own inner child, so we can get closer to our partners and have an easier family life. Which naturally frees us up to be happier, lighter and get hot,…
When I first saw them, Bill and Mara were so reactive, I wasn’t sure what was going on. But I knew I had to help them quick, or they were gonna blow up and split apart. “You always defend our son and let him not clean up after himself, instead of taking my side, and…
Some of you have been sharing with me that you get what it’s like to arrive at adult relationships and not really know what to do to have all the Hot Sex, Love and Closeness that you desire and deserve. Not to mention, having kids and the complications that can bring up EVERYTHING. And really,…
We had a BLAST on our recent LIVE STREAM chatting on all the things that you don’t want to miss on HOW TO make closeness and connection with your beloved happen more easily. And I KNOW you don’t want to miss out on how to do that because you haven’t given up on receiving the…
Okay, that was vulnerable to invite. I felt a shudder for a moment..my heart thumped with adrenaline.. what if they don’t like that, what if they go away or think it’s crazy. Typical ego fears.. right? And yet, THAT is vulnerability. And, I lead with my truth..and what I KNOW for a fact is gonna…
Vulnerability, which is the idea that something you could say or feel, that has you feel susceptible to emotional harm.. is what makes most people run for the hills. But for those who succeed, it is the GATEWAY to deeper Hot Sex, Love and Closeness. Who’s ready for more of that? So for this week…..
So many of my clients in relationship complain or criticize that they don’t have the closeness they desire. They crave it so much, they don’t realize when that desire shifts from being constructive to disconnecting. What IF, you could get a better view on yourself? what you do when you feel vulnerable? how do you…
I’m SO loving sharing with you these stories each week of how REAL parents and couples are ACTUALLY transforming their marriages and partnerships and having huge family love, closeness and connection because I want you to know and believe it’s possible for you. It’s literally helping people heal disconnection stand offs and restore closeness resulting…