So you want more Hot Sex, Love and Closeness this week? And you want it to be easier? Especially when it comes to the kids and family. Practice this. Identify the ONE thing together that you want to be easier in your family. Name it. Both of you. For example; more ease less conflict more…
My husband and I used to bicker sometimes. And then lo and behold, the kids had their own version of it one day. It wasn’t fun. And we shouldn’t have been surprised. And we knew we had to shift it and this is how we did it. And how you can too. Ready? Next time…
I can usually feel whatever the unrest is with my clients and intuitively where it’s located within a few minutes of them working with me. So when Tim and Bryce came to see me after being together seven years, both mega high powered careers and two children, age eight and six, I knew where to…
In the middle of winter this past year, my then ten year old son Emanuel was snuggling in the bed between me and my hubby. He loves to spoon for a little while, then has me scratch his back.. finally letting me caress his cheek tenderly while synchronizing our breathing together which relaxes and restores…
I can usually feel whatever the unrest is with my clients and intuitively where it’s located within a few minutes of them working with me. So when Tim and Bryce came to see me after being together seven years, both mega high powered careers, and two children, age eight and six, I knew where to begin,…
And old teacher taught me something valuable. He said, “Human beings are going to get into trouble with each other. But what matters is HOW human beings get out of trouble with each other too.” This is the value of a relationship, of the journey of tending to the disconnection places..so we can have more…
There’s nothing that sucks more than feeling disconnected and cut off from closeness and intimacy in your partnership. It hurts, a lot. It takes time. It cuts into the sex, The love. The closeness. It affects your family. It makes your mind distracted at work which creates more agony. And costs you sleep, creates anxiety,…
I’ve got a question for you; When trouble comes up, do you: fight with your partner to keep away from the feelings underneath? fly away into screen time, or some other distraction? or get numb.. with food, alcohol, drugs, porn or any other addiction? something else..(you know your specialty) We live in a culture of…
I once worked with a man who saw me over a period of ten years. He came in with his first wife, not able to move past the negative relationship cycle of blame, criticism and subtle putting things on the other person. She loved him, but she’d had enough of his ways. …
Some of you are new and some have been following my story for a while. I grew up with virtually no role models on how to have Hot Sex, Love and Closeness.. the things my clients don’t just want.. not a nice to have.. …but at some point in the journey, hands down,…