Mark and Eric had been together for 8 years. They had two sons and were both successful entrepreneurs. But they had reached a real impasse in their relationship. Things hadn’t got any deeper or closer in the last year and both of them couldn’t figure out exactly why. They felt lonely and a sense of…
A lot of people carry dis-empowered beliefs about how they’re going to have the closeness they desire. That, or they farm out their happiness with the idea that they’ll meet the right man or woman and THEN everything will be intimate, cozy, easy breezy. Or if you’re in relationship, that closeness will be when your…
Let’s not pretend, we’re all going to get into conflict with our beloved. It might not happen very often or maybe it happens more than you wish. And so the next time it happens, in order to create the closeness, connection and intimacy that you desire, we’re going to start with yourself. When you feel…
I’ve been saying all week, the number one complaint I hear from couples is one of disconnection. Some of the things I hear are; I’m just not feeling connected as I want to be, What’s the problem, is it mine or his? What can I do to feel more connected? Maybe I shouldn’t be in…
You say you truly desire and need the delicious intimacy and closeness that is so yummy you wish someone would package it up in a little love bottle and you could have it just like that.. I’ve got the next best thing.. not bottled.. but actually out of the bottle, no more mystery.. straightforward for…
If you want to feel close to your beloved, you have to work at taking the steps that make the connection happen. So the next time, you want to feel close and connected, and it’s been not as much of a connecting time for you, or you both, I want you to try this instead….
Sometimes clients walk in and straight away I can feel the energy that is preventing them from having the closeness and intimacy that they desire and need. When I look deep into their eyes, I can see the possibility of what they most desire.. and then the road to healing it becomes possible. Like Tina…
There were days in my healing journey to experience more closeness and intimacy in my marriage that felt so dark. After such a profound honeymoon period, of long extended lovemaking, multiple times per day, mega love, and closeness and connectedness, how could the period after have been filled with so much challenge and disconnection? Not…
I can usually feel whatever the unrest is with my clients and intuitively where it’s located within a few minutes of them working with me. So when Tim and Bryce came to see me after being together seven years, both mega high powered careers, and two children, age eight and six, I knew where to begin,…
And old teacher taught me something valuable. He said, “Human beings are going to get into trouble with each other. But what matters is HOW human beings get out of trouble with each other too.” This is the value of a relationship, of the journey of tending to the disconnection places..so we can have more…