I’m always fascinated by the way couples come into the room.
I observe the eye contact, the walk, the energy.. And it often foreshadows the session.
Like my clients Lori and John… they seemed a bit ashamed, and wanted to be dignified. They were reluctant to come in, and yet knew they needed to.
They had an EPIC falling in love period, and that was over and now they had two kids, two self employed businesses and wanted to have things be easier… as sex has fizzled, love felt weary and intimacy felt thin.
They kept getting stuck…and owned they didn’t want to feel like victims to their shadows, but acknowledged that they did.
They wanted to feel empowered, they considered themselves ‘woke’, and thought they were smarter than this struggle.
They were smart, but from my years of training, I know there are many kinds of smart – instinctual intelligence, emotional intelligence, intuitive wisdom, karmic wisdom and creative wisdom…and they really needed support on how to access the wisdom in their soul…and for these particular challenges they were having right now.
I’ve studied with some of the most genuine spiritual teachers, who taught me the tremendous value of inquiry…the practice to access the deeper layers of the self.. (if you don’t know this.. You’ll want to)
And so with this couple, we sat with the difficult question…
How intimate are you with the lessons from the difficulties in your relationship?
What are the soul lessons that come with the difficulty in your relationship?
We asked that questions many times. We all listened together. We listened with heart, mind, body and soul. We heard the different responses. We sat with the struggle together. They learned it could be tolerated. We got the clarity – and they used the intelligence they had in one area to access the wisdom from their soul here.
And from there, it was integration time.
We took the clarity, and then helped that get resourced in the body, in the nervous system, in the heart and the mind.
And from there, creativity flowed on what to do next.
They went from feeling stuck in their heads, to feeling more open in their hearts. And from thinking they each knew exactly what was going on into a curiosity that loosened the tight grip of their thoughts that caused conflict and contraction.
I loved watching them get happier and more loved up looking 😉. Their energy in our space together was palpably more connected, viscerally alive, present, clear and extremely creative. It was like all the lights turned on, excitement about being together and the future was present. So exciting.. And I want the whole world to have it.
Including you.
Honestly, it doesn’t have to be hard, it is simply a process away and I know I’m the best person to help guide you through the trenches so you can have it too.
Tell me what’s ONE thing you’ll do this week to start to listen more deeply to your soul. I can’t wait to hear what it is.
And.. I’ve got ONE spot open this week for anyone who is really working hard to address the soul lessons that are coming up in their relationship, and know there has to be an easier path… Get on this while there’s an opening.. you can tell me any one thing you want help within your relationship.. and I’ll share with you the MOST EFFECTIVE thing that will totally help you.
