Because I KNOW you want more Hot Sex, (who doesn’t?)
And because no one showed you how to decide with a thorough foundation first so you can have it,
You’ve got to let go of the things that no longer serve you first.
Here’s what I mean.
You don’t paint a wall without priming and scraping off the old one first.
You don’t eat fresh meal from pots that you haven’t cleaned first…
And you don’t simply ‘decide’ to have better sex until you’ve let go of the things that need to go first.
Here’s a practice to do (and this works whether you’re in relationship or not, because let’s face it, you’ve got to do this work regardless before you create any new thing, so why not start here?)
First.
Get together with your beloved.
Sit close and look at each other in the eye.
Commit to being honest in the context of compassion
And take turns sharing (full transparency) what you each intuit
and need to be let go of in the sexual arena…
So that you can truly create what you desire.
It can be thoughts.
Ideas. (about self or other)
Opinions.
Feelings.
Emotions.
Old hurts or injuries.
And start to let them go.
Release them with a ceremony,
Release them by forgiving them, yourself or your partner,
Release them by loving them and finding out what they need,
Releasing them by feeling them, so they can get met and easily let go…
THIS is what you have to do.
And it’s a practice.
So in case it’s feeling overwhelming to you, because it might (and often will), take a deep breath, and know that I am here for you if you’re stuck.
In fact, I’ve got ONE spot for anyone this week wanting to let go EVEN MORE so that you can be free to decide and create whatever you wish when it comes to Hot Sex… And those desires, they aren’t going away.. so tell me when you commit to getting started.
This week I’m going to make forgiving old injuries a priority.. so I can be freer to decide.
Tell me in the comments.. who’s with me.
