Here’s A Love Dare For This Week!
Want to feel some REAL movement in love this week?
You know what they say.. the bigger the risk.. the bigger the REWARD…right?
So here’s the deal.
We ALL can disconnect from love.
It’s part of the separation wounding we all have somewhere..either handed down by the culture.. or the conditioning we got growing up. And then we play it out in love relationships…
I haven’t seen a client ever — who has no issue here…
Ever met that person yourself?
And what I’ve noticed is that the ones willing to be brave, are the ones who reap the reward
With your beloved…sit across from each other. {{ you’ll need about 20 minutes for this..10 minutes each }}
Know you are safe to share.
Without stopping.. share ALL the ways with your partner.. that you have disconnected from love.
For example, I’ve disconnected from love by getting pissy, or going cold.
It’s not easy to admit, but just relating to it, giving it dignity by expressing it,
Connection is made, and true healing and creativity can begin.
Dig deep, be brave, share it for real.
Nothing needs to be done about it…
The person listening, simply says, “Thank You for sharing how you disconnect from love with me.”
Switch.
Bonus Dare. Do two or more rounds.
Check In.
See how you feel..
Notice what you learn.
How do you feel towards each other now?
Share how have you disconnected from your partner?
Share in the comments..I’d love to hear.
I have found this exercise to MOVE the needle of disconnection INTO love and connection.
Every time!
When we can own our shortcomings and know we are safe…LOVE and CONNECTION restored!
Can’t wait for you to try this.
So excited for what I KNOW you are going to receive…
