I hear every week from my clients that they want to be closer to their partners.
More intimate.
They want deeper conversations where they feel super close, relaxed and intimate.
And I see the fallout from this written about online too.
People exposing breakups or how someone they were dating failed the test for not doing something.
And I’m not saying have no boundaries, because they are really important.
But what I am saying is this.
Have you actually self-assessed that you are available for the intimacy and closeness that you seek?
How comfortable are you with being that intimate with yourself first?
How available are you for such deep closeness with all your inner parts within?
Many of us have never sat with that inquiry.
Resulting is expectations on the other person while missing the potency of facing this part of ourselves first.
And being stuck in that….in their current dating cycle.. partnership.. or last five years.
It’s a real thing.
So the next time you find yourself expecting they’d be a certain way first, in order for you to be emotionally intimate with them..
Get honest in your self-assessment of your own openness and closeness within yourself first.
And act from there and see what goodness comes from it in your relationship.
I know it’s gonna be good.
Is there ONE thing you can do this week to make space for your own self-assessmen
