I heard you’re wanting more soul satisfying love this week, (or month or year).
I keep hearing this.. you want it, but don’t know what else to do.
And you’re hungry, tired and ready for it.
Life is too short for love NOT to be soul satisfying, right?
To sit, somehow waiting for that love to just float in magically if you wait long enough.
To hope that if you grin and bear it, all shall be revealed.
But it’s not working.
And time (and life) is going by.
So if you really want to up the ante.
And get it happening.
I dare you to do to this.
Go after all the hurts!!
Be Relentless.
Clean them up.
Be open hearted about it.
Be generous to them.
Don’t wait.
Both of you.
Keep going.
Until there are no more words to be said.
Til you reach the quiet point.
And you soften.
And heal.
And exhale.
And you connect
And know, this other person CAN and WILL get you in the depth of whatever is there.
They want to.
And you do too.
Do it.
Do it now.
Name the hurt places.
Name what it looks like, feels like and sounds like.
Find out what they need. Ask them.
Share them with your partner in a good way (no blame or criticism).
Before it’s too late.
Before you waste another precious second in silent pain when you could be having a luscious and laughing in love-making time instead.
It’s a gift we get to love.
Be wise about it.
Be grateful.
Do the healing hurt work.
Move on into love.. soul satisfying love
Holy OMG sacred kinda love..
Whatever kinda love floats your love wheels..
And decide. Who is going to decide that THIS is the time to get that for yourself, and make it happen? When my couples do this, MASSIVE PROGRESS HAPPENS. It’s not for the faint of heart, so not a lot of people do it.. but I dare you today to give it a shot.
Every time I go after hurts, and don’t stop, I feel a million pounds lighter, like I did yesterday. It’s like I did a hurt cleanse..
Do yours too.
