…you CAN do THIS instead. (and hint hint.. It’s much more relaxing)
Contrary to what you’ve been told by other love mentors, that you need to have your mindset properly in place to have your relationship work out well, that your head needs to be screwed on ‘straight’ (whatever that means) otherwise you won’t attract your divine mate.
We’ve been told that if we don’t do that, we’re not manifesting correctly, and that it won’t be possible to attract love or keep love because we’re not doing it right.
I find this advice misplaced and also injurious to people. I’ve seen it with my own eyes to watch the ‘manic pivot’ as I call it from heartache in relationship spring into mindset, mindset and more mindset.
I can tell you from sitting with thousands of clients in my mastermind and program work, this ‘necessity to totally focus on mindset is BS and it’s simply untrue.
I’ve seen really beautiful souls try SO hard to mindset their way through everything…and while they’re busy posting selfies, trying to keep up, on the backend, feeling a lot of anguish that their Divine Mate hasn’t shown up yet.
I think we need to forgive ourselves for this.
We need to understand.
It’s not easy – but if something is not working, we’ve got to acknowledge how hard we’ve tried and tired, and understand ourselves with all our love so that we can pivot and try something else, something that’s going to work.
This is what my clients have come to me for.
And I can tell you this.
The power of intuition and trusting it within a well regulated nervous system is going to far more, help you have your mate than mindset ever will.
It’s what helped me meet my husband, after feeling like I had been doing it wrong according to some of the experts.
It’s what’s helped me sustain love after mindset work in my relationship failed miserably.
And just the other day, my hubby and I were talking about how wonderful it’s been to walk through the path of getting regulated, then being able to easily trust and implement our deeper intuition about creating intimacy together.
He said, “Babe, it’s been worth every second.” I kissed him and agreed.
We had to slow down.
To ground our visions and desires deep into our bodies.
To let the threads of mind, heart, body and instinct all be heard and woven into our desires in a grounded way.
It is not ‘fly by night’ work.
It happened with a lot of love, devotion, presence, skill and amazing mentorship. (Thank God!)
It was worth every minute.
Now we get to enjoy the fruits of our connection, even during the crazy times we all find ourselves in, we are thriving!
If you find yourself in a similar place, I want to invite you to have this as well.
It’s available and it’s the magic I create with my clients as well.
I have two spots open this week.
PM me for more details..
P.S. Wondering how to trust your intuition from the ground up? No more forced mindset! Join me in Dream Maker, The Live Stream on September 4th, at 11 am PST.
