When things feel really painful between you and your partner, you can feel like, wtf, where are we going and how do we navigate this so that we can get through it, WELL?
You can scroll and ignore this, because you’re so ‘busy,’ and yes, you are…but what’s going to anchor you, keep the challenges evolving in a good way and get lots of integration happening to help get on with having all the Hot Sex, Love and Closeness you desire, (Let’s face it, you have needs and they’re not going away anytime soon.)
Here’s what to do now.
Make it a practice this week to keep the dialogue alive with your partner on these questions –
>>>What are the soul lessons through this challenge?<<<
>>>What am I learning?<<<
>>>What parts of myself am I being asked to open to?<<<
Ask.
Listen.
Integrate.
I guarantee you, the struggle, the rub, the challenge, the edge.. Whatever it is for you.. It CAN’T stay the same.
IF you do the work.. To be in relationship.. with what’s there.. The lessons, the opening, the inner parts…all of it!
That’s it.
There are those that do the work and get the results..The Hot Sex, Love and Closeness yumminess you’ve been deeply desiring and craving…
And there are those that will sit in the discomfort and do nothing. They’ll end up with the same feelings of hopelessness, struggle and frustration that’s slow motion strangling your relationship and all the goodness in it.
And if you’re ready to do the soul work you know you need to release the tension.. This is what it requires.. And I want to know who’s ready to do it?
