Have you considered what would happen IF you didn’t only chit-chat about your relationship issues instead?
We all have places in a partnership that has micro to macro pockets of disconnection, chaos, conflict, stress, and overwhelm when it comes to connection, love-making, and intimacy.
You have the power though, to have a different experience – a powerful one – learning how to handle these issues, without the usual chit-chat, talky-talk approach that is the central focus of most counseling, therapies, and coaching.
Tune into this episode: You Only Won’t Get Results If You Keep Chit-Chatting About Your Deep Partnership Issues
Key points covered in this episode:
✔️ Identify when your counseling, therapy, or coaching for your partnership has become normalized as talking about the issues (as in, around in circles), and discern where that’s helpful and where you need something more effective.
✔️Discover how smart, passionate couples can disengage from talk-only insight, and brilliance that doesn’t go anywhere, so they can move into greater connection and happiness.
✔️ Become aware of the euphoric-high-dopamine hit that comes from brilliant insight, and evaluate whether your body can hold the energy of it so it can last.
✔️ Learn what to do when you have a desire for more, and better love-making, intimacy and connection, and how to have your chats be the servant to these desires coming true instead of your mind getting in the way instead.
✔️ Find out how to start listening to what is inside your body underneath the chit-chat conversations, and how to be open to learning to do that together.
✔️ Be willing to learn how to get real results in your partnership, that last.
✔️ Identify when you getting into any repeating negative mind-activated loops and how to be instead. Learn about regulation and co-regulation.
✔️ Bring resources into the required and desired places, way beneath the layers of the mind, and harvest the power of co-regulation, through care and connection to handle the overwhelm of any stress together.
✔️ Be open to receiving something your mind cannot even conceive of., but that will bring you body safety, ease, and peace.