You know those times you chat with your inner circle friends in relationships, or maybe you’re in one yourself, where there’s a lot of love there, but there’s trauma and yet there is a desire to be conscious woke?
And then there’s this moment when honesty happens, late at night, and there’s sharing of just how hard it’s really been. Full transparency. No matter which turn is taken, trauma and unsafety are oozing out of pores everywhere.
And truth comes, that they or you, don’t feel safe or good most of the time, and even more concerning, don’t know how to, but that’s all that’s really wanted… just to feel good and safe.
Like my client Sheryl.
She loved her husband Matt very much.
They were smart. Million dollar earners. Very intelligent. Brilliant.
They knew they wanted to be conscious about their relationship.
And they knew they were walking through a difficult passageway, but it wasn’t permanent.
How could they {and you} go through this work and know how to feel safe and good even while processing such overwhelming material?
But everything they had tried had failed; hypnotherapy, regular counseling, affirmations, NLP, cognitive behavioral therapy, life coaching, angel readings, mindset work, Buddhist practice, channeling and more.
Have you had that feeling?
It’s frustrating and hard because you know you’re smart and bright and you just need the right kind of support.
But what is the missing key?
What we did was very specific.
We targeted some of the particular points of where the sense of unsafety and not feeling good live in their body and lives, and especially in their relationship hotspots.
And because I’m the Intimacy Alchemist– I helped them awaken the power of the ‘feel good’ center through their body pretty quickly, and learn how to distinguish past traumas that happened in the there and then, from the present moment of the now. They faced their fears, safely, one by one, always while feeling in control.
All of this happened while continuously grounding the body, it’s sensations and impulses so deeply in the present moment that do you know what happens?
The feeling of management and regulation of oneself and the energies we are dealing with start to become embodied and tangibly felt. No longer do you have to stay feeling overwhelmed, or unsafe. There is a divine feeling of the riteness of ‘right now.’ and the past memories become easier to manage.
Can you imagine what a relief this is when you are knee deep in the trenches with your beloved, and you know it’s trauma, and you’re on the liberation path, but you just want to learn how to feel better while you do it?
To feel an easier ‘yes’ in your gut, to what’s really going on.
In my presence, this is what came through for Sheryl.
She felt safe, able to connect to her feel good center easily, become more resourced in the riteness of the here and now, able to face her fears with her hubby together, but this time, do it consciously and safely, instead of creating more drama-trauma.
This ability is worth it’s weight in gold when it comes to your relationship. And both of you need it when navigating conditioning and karma.
Especially if there are ancestral traumas or personal traumas that we all know, after the honeymoon period, are likely to surface… so that they can be finally healed in the embrace of love and presence and wisdom.
I’m seeing this activation of not feeling safe everywhere. With Covid, the elections, and extreme unrest all over the world, people are not feeling the same level of safety as before. This brings up all the unsafety imprints like never before and most of us have them.
And the one place they usually come out MOST is in a romantic relationship.
And they won’t go away, until we release them like Sheryl and Matt.
This is exactly what’s possible for you – the ability to finally control how to feel safe and how to feel good, no matter what you are going through. And to do it in a way that is grounded in your body, and that actually is sustainable, not just an ungrounded workshop insight that dissolves once the weekend is over.
And the space I hold for this unfoldment to happen is exactly my magic.
If you’re interested, I have two spots open.
Send me a message.
