I share about our relationship wins and big-time triumphs and they talk and speculate.
They say, “She’s SO lucky, how did she get that, we had no idea she was up to this…wasn’t she just a country woman who lives in Sonoma county and has some cute kids?”
How did she really do it? And create a life, and business that works with those who want a Hot Sex, Love and Closeness, even while having children, and do it well, and be abundant, and have time for what she wants to do?
We went through normal therapy. It sort of worked. But sort of didn’t. We tried body work, reiki, cognitive-based approaches, NLP, shamanic methods, forgiveness work, ancestral healing to give you a sense. But that didn’t heal the trauma even though we worked our a$$es off.
…and last year, it all came to a head.
We received the most nuanced attachment level trauma support, because the wounds were so ancient, so old, even before birth, (and no one is talking about this) THAT WENT WAY BEYOND ALL OF OUR PREVERBAL PATTERNS, STRAIGHT BACK TO CONCEPTION. We saw what was in our field (the surrounding energies) at that time and the conception field is so potent because of how it impacts our thinking processes going forward. Let that sink in. Keyword.. Conception.
We threw ourselves into that work deeply, ALL the way.
We saw what had been playing out…on the most primary of levels; imprints from when we were just tiny sparks of light coming into human form, arriving into our respective mother’s womb.
We applied ourselves, heart, body mind and soul to THIS place. We were devoted, not to mention relentless about liberation, and passionate, and to bring all this to this earliest of places, was life and relationship changing.
And everything started to fall into place.
It was like the thorns got removed from our space, even the very deepest ones.
We integrated what we found.
Lots of discussions. Lots of empathy. Lots of ownership all around.
We leaned into our extensive team of support, which is what it takes.
That part was completely non-negotiable.
And then we kept feeling our new peace,
new peace through our mind
new peace through our hearts
new peace through our bodies
new peace through all the conversations…
and lots of new creativity
And we became new people.
It just happened.
Lots of stories and relationship-old projections fell away.
And we let go of the deepest resistance to the most acute vulnerability. (C’mon you guys, we are talking preconception, a zygote and it’s needs, what’s more vulnerable than that?)
And we put so much of the challenges we’d had, in context.
Because hello, how we are conceived, is how we conceive.. (yes.. all the thought structures can come from here.)
And it happened easily.
And we hired more support.
And owned our bigger love.
As well as our bigger dreams.
Our next level desires for intimacy. (ooh)
And expanded our body’s capacity to tolerate the sensations of even more closeness.
We addressed this work every day.
And that was with kids, and two self-employed businesses, not easy to do for those who know.
And at moments the vulnerability ripped us tenderly open into even newer connection.
That we enjoy even more because of the sweetness we have now.
And if you’re wanting this kind of breakthrough reading this, that will get to the very core of the disconnection you’ve been experiencing, you’ll have to do your own version of this work, getting to the roots of conflict between you two.
I’ve opened up one spot (https://freecallwithjoanna.com/) this week for anyone who is wanting to turn up the hotness, love and intimacy in their love relationship…..even if you haven’t been having it for a while… get on this while there’s an opening.. you can tell me any one thing you want help within your relationship.. and I’ll share with you the MOST EFFECTIVE thing that will totally help you.
