Take An Inventory Of The Familiar Sides Of Your Masculine And Feminine.
They can be roles, archetypes, and characters.
The ways you are in sex.. whether receiving, giving or anything in between.
I see a lot of couples and individuals play out the same missionary position. Somehow that got to be the main way people have sex, but my clients often complain to me that it can get very boring. An archetype is a very typical example of something. Missionary position is a typical example of a sexual position. So for each of you, find a different archetype or character for your masculine. This does not mean that men have to be in the masculine, or women in the feminine…we all can play all the roles with each other, no matter what the configuration.
At least one time this week, see what happens if you go to none of those familiar roles, and try something completely new and different.
Don’t think about it too much.
How do you feel differently with each other?
How do you imagine the sex and love-making might be different?
What is the one thing in your opinion that makes people get stuck in sex ruts?
