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The MOST Important Thing I HAD To Do To Turn Up The Hot Sex Volume In My Long Term Partnership (Even With Kids).

I know we might still be getting to know each other a bit…and I’m loving your questions and appreciation of the high value I’m here to bring to you.. because nothing changes the world like couples who are having hot steamy sex, love and closeness…

The ripple effect out.. I’m telling you…

  • kids happier
  • love grown
  • families closer
  • work life – family flow FLOWIN’
  • closeness, intimacy

Ahhh…it tastes so good…and sometimes people think of me.. how’d she do it?

So, I’m going to share with you…EXACTLY what I did.

You see, when I first met my hubby, I was only planning on having one child.

I didn’t felt it was my destiny this lifetime to have children, but when I met him, he told me one day, “there’s gonna be two.”

And it kinda freaked me out at the time…but I kinda also knew it was true, WITH HIM.

And we started to discuss parenting ideas, he said to me…”we come first…”

And at the time, I wasn’t sure…I said, “The kids come first.”

But then he explained the oxygen mask example… and I saw that if we actually didn’t prioritize time for loving and sexing and everything all in that…we’d sink..because we wouldn’t have what we needed at the core.

And then we went on with our lives, dating, moving in and buying a house together, getting married and before we knew it, two kids were here…and we were both exhausted and very underwhelmed with our sex life…. not the hot sex, love and closeness that we desired and had talked about those many moons ago when we first dated.

And that was SO not good…

And it hurt me, him, us…our family life was not in easy flow.

And I heard it from other Moms and Dads, and got how UNBELIEVABLY pervasive this is…

Can you believe we don’t talk about this enough??

What if we could…like we did…

We knew we had to:

  • prioritize time for lovemaking
  • learn how to plan for and be content with quickies
  • be open to discussing our desires, big and small
  • reconcile any childhood wounding around love, sex and closeness
  • and be willing to be vulnerable, open and transparent about it all

and the HARDEST thing we HAD to learn to open up to…OMG, it was

so hard…the last thing I wanted to do
the one I had the most shame about…

But really, this was the LINCHPIN thing.. the thing that if we didn’t TAKE ACTION…we’d be in serious relationship jeopardy…as we had started to become…

and once we did start to do this thing….we got better and the sex became hotter, wilder and more satisfying than ever before…even though we hadn’t been having that experience somewhere in the middle of wedding and arriving at kid number two!

and that was…

  • to finally get help from someone experienced, trained and farther along with me
  • to open up, talk about.. and get very honest and vulnerable about all the different inner parts involved..
  • to work with a trusted person, or in our case, persons and also massively open to other couples in groups… real people who had done the work… trustable…who’d actually explicitly walked that path
  • and done the DAMN work to experience the hot sex, love and closeness they were obviously experiencing…
  • and to deeply VALUE these containers, with our time, investment and energy. EVEN when and ESPECIALLY when we were very busy.

And we did…and it was hard but it was GOOD… beyond that.. hot and steamy and super soul satisfying and fulfilling…

and so… if you’re reading…

and resonating…

isn’t it your turn?

to have that experience.. and get going to get it.. because your relationship and sex life are FREAKIN’ precious… and you KNOW you’ve only got good awesome loving to have, right?

So who’s ready to finally get the wheels rolling?

Like seriously.. why are you waiting…?

Want to feel my 33 years and 30,000 hours of deep intensive client hours, and thousands more hours of in depth training… in your corner?….seriously…I’m NOT a pop up overnight love, sex and relationship facilitator…I’ve got healthy boundaries.. and the education and testimonials to back it up…

If you said yes…

…and you’re reading this and thinking you’re READY for all this… I’ve got ONE spot open this week for anyone who is wanting to turn up the hotness, love and intimacy in their love relationship…..even if you haven’t been having it for a while… get on this while there’s openings.. you can tell me any one thing you want help within your relationship.. and I’ll share with you the MOST EFFECTIVE thing that will totally help you

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