And let those parts be what the sex focuses on instead?
For example, masculine is often thought of as more active and assertive. And feminine is often thought of as more receptive and still. This is one way to identify the two sides of polarity. Usually lovemaking and sex involves some friction interplay between the two of them.
And couples often get into ruts. Playing the same role over and over again.. functional..but not really hot.
So, consider this your nudge to step outside of the same roles, and find new ones.
Discuss this together. Identify the old ones. Name the new ones you want to play with.
And then see what happens.
What do you discover?
Do you learn more about yourself and what makes you or your partner hot?
Do you like it more?
Go on, give it a try.
You’ll probably like it.
What’s your favorite thing you learned during this?
