“I want more depth from him…
She needs to take things less personally, everything makes her so emotionally overwhelmed…
Sometimes I wonder why we have to go through this…
I wish we could have more perspective or context that made sense for what we’re going through…can it really be only this that’s going on?
What else is contributing to the disconnection.. I feel like we’re missing something.. are we? Is it me… is it you? Is it us?
I don’t understand how we’re supposed to hold everything that’s required of us… parenting, couplehood, paying the bills, successful careers, family, resolving our stuff, and.. and.. and…”
These were the words that tumbled out of the mouths of my clients Kevin and Cara…through the first meeting I had with them.
Perhaps you resonate.. or know someone who has a similar version of this going on…
They didn’t know what questions they needed to ask…
They were struggling to make sense of their journey, find meaning, and greater love, wisdom, perspective and space, EXACTLY what they needed to bring them closer, more connected and create more intimacy.. emotionally and sexually.
The longing for depth, profound connection, epic love and hot sex evokes all this inquiry…and they weren’t willing to settle for a surface level.. or one-dimensional answer..
Because these things aren’t answerable that way…
And sometimes the thing that’s going to shift the needle…
And be the linchpin thing that makes things ALL make sense…
And fall into place, even in the hardest and most charged up of places…
And feel like the missing piece that helps glue the parts of the relationship together that may not feel easy to connect the dots in..
Is the acceptance of the work of relationship AS spiritual path…
A path that holds you…
That provides you both and your challenges.. greater meaning, compassion, wisdom…and release…
And values the greater growth and evolutionary lessons of the relationship.. always…
And the healing it requires you do…and you do it..
And the self-liberating.. and together liberating union of overcoming any struggles and pains that you can do together…if you choose, which you CAN…
And seeing each other as sacred mirrors.. here to show each other parts..and learning to do it well..
And to be each other’s best ally.. on a deep soul level…
And these were just some of the things Kevin and Cara learned to do in our time together…because they couldn’t NOT…
And they developed their own way, their own path, informed by the wisdom and teachings they felt aligned with..
And they kept tweaking it..
growing it..
building it..
And they got to utilize what they’d built.. for THEM!
And it was glorious to watch as they became very generous of spirit with each other…and THAT really helped too..
And this path they created, that helped them be closer, more loving and more intimate, was far bigger than the one they had been walking before that led them to me to begin with.
And they triumphed.. with their kids, their work.. and in their own waking up as well.
…all with great heart and soul they KNEW was in each of them…and their union…
Which was pretty epic and satisfying to witness and an honor to be able to facilitate…
How many people do we all know that would benefit from this?
Would you?
Cara and Kevin had to hold the question of what contributed to the disconnection…and when they opened to the relationship as a spiritual path, then closeness and intimacy flourished….
What’s ONE area you’d like to flourish?
If you’ve read this far.. you probably are.. and that’s a good sign and I’m inviting you to LAND in the sacred container I hold, professionally and personally to really get you.. whether it’s you or your partner.. or you both.. you will get answers, and know EXACTLY what to do.
And.. I’ve got ONE spot open this week for anyone who is wanting to turn up the hotness, love and intimacy in their love relationship…..even if you haven’t been having it for a while… get on this while there’s openings.. you can tell me any one thing you want help within your relationship.. and I’ll share with you the MOST EFFECTIVE thing that will totally help you.
What’s ONE way, you can imagine a spiritual path will help your partnership?
