What Do You Do When There’s Trauma’s Being Processed Through Your Relationship And You Don’t Feel Safe Or Good, But You Really Want To?

What Do You Do When There’s Trauma’s Being Processed Through Your Relationship And You Don’t Feel Safe Or Good, But You Really Want To?

You know those times you chat with your inner circle friends in relationships, or maybe you’re in one yourself, where there’s a lot of love there, but there’s trauma and yet there is a desire to be conscious woke? And then there’s this moment when honesty happens, late at night, and there’s sharing of just…

Have You Tried These Three Top Ways To Integrate Spiritual Wisdom Into Your Relationship?

Have You Tried These Three Top Ways To Integrate Spiritual Wisdom Into Your Relationship?

So many people try spiritual ceremonies, meditation practices, crystal healings, cognitive insight, NLP, medicine ceremonies, code healing for their relationship but really have a hard time turning the emotional disconnection that made them seek those practices into soul-satisfying love. How would you like me to make that simpler for you? Let’s let it be easier….

Have You Been Working With Coaches Who Tell You To Do Another Spiritual Ceremony or Practice To Help You Clear Away Your Relationship Challenges?

Have You Been Working With Coaches Who Tell You To Do Another Spiritual Ceremony or Practice To Help You Clear Away Your Relationship Challenges?

I have, and I tried it many times and failed and wondered why. Look, I know in the coaching world, there’s tremendous focus on insight, the ‘codes’ and transcending away your challenges through meditation, leading with soul and other spiritual methods. They’re not bad methods in and of themselves. I like many of them, a…

Another Medicine Journey is Probably NOT Going to Give Your Relationship the Foundation for Everyday Sustainability…But I Know This Will Instead

Another Medicine Journey is Probably NOT Going to Give Your Relationship the Foundation for Everyday Sustainability…But I Know This Will Instead

I’ve witnessed a lot of people look to medicine journeys (which I have deep respect for) as the be all – end all when it comes to transformation, hold it as the great and ultimate problem solver, clearer and the ultimate way. I’ve also observed some of the same people, including facilitators, really have a…

Do You Wonder How To Have More Soul Satisfying Sex, Love and Closeness?

Do You Wonder How To Have More Soul Satisfying Sex, Love and Closeness?

In one form or another these are the questions that keep me on my toes each and every week with my clients. Allow me to make this more simple. Learn to tolerate and open to the entire range of vulnerability that comes up for you and you both in your couples journey. Get support for…

Your Biggest Relationship Successes Are NOT Going to Come Through Mindset

Your Biggest Relationship Successes Are NOT Going to Come Through Mindset

It’ll be THIS Instead. I’m fired up about mindset this week because almost every relationship client from the online world talks about it almost immediately. They wonder why they failed to solve relationship problems with mindset, no matter how hard they tried. I wish they didn’t beat themselves up so hard about it. The answer?…

Mindset Is Fu*%king Bullshit When It Comes To Emotional Disconnection In Your Marriage

Mindset Is Fu*%king Bullshit When It Comes To Emotional Disconnection In Your Marriage

And here’s exactly what you need to be doing instead. One of the things I notice repeatedly in my powerful women clients who want a deep, satisfying romantic relationship, is the constant focus on needing to have an amazing mindset. It’s talked about as the Holy Grail, dripping with ‘code’ instructions, alignment only with soul,…

The Scorpio Full Moon After Effects  – Are You Taking Back The Fullness Of Your God Given Soul Desires?

The Scorpio Full Moon After Effects  – Are You Taking Back The Fullness Of Your God Given Soul Desires?

I am, and have always been the in the deepest part of me, Inanna.. Queen of Mastery of the Underworld, who returns to the world after her descent, full of power, love, creativity and leadership. But somewhere along the way, as I dealt with all my humanity and trauma, I lost touch with how powerful…

Some People Look At Me, My Home, Or With My Man, Enjoying Ourselves Or Having Fun And THIS Is What They Do…

Some People Look At Me, My Home, Or With My Man, Enjoying Ourselves Or Having Fun And THIS Is What They Do…

I share about our relationship wins and big-time triumphs and they talk and speculate.  They say, “She’s SO lucky, how did she get that, we had no idea she was up to this…wasn’t she just a country woman who lives in Sonoma county and has some cute kids?” How did she really do it? And create a…