I can’t tell you how many times couples and those who seek relationship came into my office and felt shame with self-recrimination that they didn’t know how to bring common sense to their relationship issues.
I’ve watched people tear themselves apart.. criticize themselves.. think they were idiots and dumb shits because they have this idea that relationship should be easy, common sense and that we should all be born with the skills to do it really well.
I can’t tell you how much of a disservice this point of view is.
To bring balance and service.. I’m going to go knee deep into this all the way on this week’s podcast, because you deserve to be let off the hook and know how to make it easier without pretending it’s a super simple problem, or that common sense should just fixed everything.
Tune in and find out..
– The problem with common sense and why it’s not working to help bring you closer to your partner.
– The three things you can do right now to let yourself off the self-blame cross.
– The five things you can do to begin cultivating the emotional intelligence you need to create a relationship with the closeness and connection.
No one reads this far unless they have a resonance with DESIRING more closeness, and wanting it to be easier, and not really being sure how to do it.
It’s easy to beat yourself up and to settle for the same old uncomfortable but comfortable discomfort.
You can even convince yourself that maybe you’ll just hang out another year and it will probably get better.
But if you’re not taking the steps to get the layers of support you need lined up, how will it really be that way a year from now?
This is exactly what we will be jumping deep into the heart up today in our podcast and I want you to be there because it doesn’t have to be hard or impossible.
It can be as easy as being in relationship and the energy of someone who has walked the path as deep, wide and detailed as I have.
And I can’t wait to share all this with you.