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When I hear couples dissatisfied about their sexual connection, it makes me sad because I KNOW there is something that you can do about it.

It’s not a magic pill, or overnight fix, (and anyone who tells you that should send you running for the hills, rightfully so.)

But what is possible, because I have done this myself, is to KNOW exactly how to get into the space where creativity can lead to release, relief and connection.

It’s going to require you be willing to release blame, the well work patterns of the mind, and to trust me (and your body) to go deeper into the natural pulses and rhythms that contain all the answers and healing flow you need to liberate sexual disconnection struggles of ANY kind.

Join me on this episode of the Hot Sex, Love and Closeness podcast, where I’ll share from the inside of my own journey and the rich conversations with couples I serve, exactly how to cultivate the sexual connection you’ve been most desiring.

Find out what to do to;

• Safely get to the root of the sexual disconnection challenges.
• Stop the complaint and move into healthy self-assertion.
• and creatively start bringing about what you’ve been most craving.

This podcast is reaching people in Africa, Asia, America, Australia and throughout Europe. We are a powerful community of support and the layers of that support can help you have the kind of connection you’ve been craving….IF you let it in.

Here’s your chance.
Go Slow.
Go Deep.
Let’s get some genuine connection happening in the places in the bedroom that need it the most.

Can’t wait to hear what you think.

Every week, I hear the desire for things to be easier, for massive healing to happen, and for love to open, blossom and deliver beauty, love and lightness to places where things feel ugly, dark and not welcome.

Maybe your version of it this week includes to stop fighting over who is making dinner and start having sex on the dining room table again. 🙂

When I think back on my own marriage and relationship journey, I had a pattern of overwhelm that kept replaying itself over and over again, and then when sitting in circles with peers and who are doing the deep work of creating conscious relationship, I saw a few things, that I’ve learned and would love to share with you that changed everything for me and my relationship.

On this podcast, I’m going into how you can move into softening the part of you that can have your relationship moving to miracles or into suffering/challenge.

I decided to truly address what it actually takes to create a field that allows miracles to happen that let hot sex get born, love blossom and closeness become a delicious jewel of intimacy, connection and ease that you share between the two of you even if this isn’t something you’ve experienced for quite some time (or maybe ever).

Now I know what you’re thinking,’ I’m busy, I don’t have time, is this going to be any good? is it grounded?’

And I want to tell you, yes it is, because I have walked this path so deeply, I have seen at lynchpin moments where one step could lead to more challenge, conflict and suffering and the other step could lead to more love, beauty, sex and closeness.

I made my choice… and now it’s time for you to as well.

I have been at this intersection over and over again. I’ve been confronted with my conditioned mind, the emotion and feelings in my family lineage that affect me and no doubt you have your own that affect you.

I have sat with the part of me that could be reactive, or could truly choose and decide to create peace, and not just want to create, but actually create it from a place that has the resources and the capacity to do it.

So if you’re reading this and wondering what else you can do, I want to invite you to step in to this podcast, because I am going to get bare, and naked emotionally and spiritually with what it truly took.

Find out how I:

• Truly OPENED to how to create love and grace which allowed miracles to happen in my relationship.
• Discovered what a grace-field actually was and HOW you can use it to get specific answers of what you truly need so that you can open up to miracles where you need them in your relationship.
• What to DO when you don’t even know where to start, but you’re ready for a deep healing and transformation in your partnership.

I can’t wait to get this in your hands, because I know with just a few simple tweaks, how much my own relationship shifted, and how much it’s not only probable but very possible that you can have that as well, and you deserve it, and your relationship deserves it, and you get to have it.

No more it being hard.
No more not having what you need in front of you to do the darn work that’s needed.
No more feeling alone and disconnected and cut off from all the goodness and benefits and miracles that a partnership can and should bring.

Come on inside on this very special episode, where I’m sharing it all and I know it’s going to be amazing for you as well, so that you can get the hot sex, love, and closeness you’ve always wanted.

Check it out here.

Let me know what you think.

I absolutely know what works and these have changed not only my life, but the lives of literally hundreds and thousands of clients over the years and I want that for you so deeply because that is my deep soul purpose.

I also believe if you’ve read this far it’s probably part of yours as well.

Let’s do this.

There are some non-negotiables when it comes to having your family feel secure and emotionally healthy.

And in this podcast, I’m going to go into depth on my own personal story of how I discovered these three elixirs that I know are going to help you heal difficulties, reduce overwhelm, make sacred the important things and how to become better listeners and mirrors for each other and your children. 

Without these things, you might be feeling overwhelmed, or carrying around old hurts and difficulties that haven’t yet had a healing experience.

With these things, you will have the hot sex, love and closeness I know you’re craving. 

I’m on a mission to end that and have this work reach three hundred and seventy million couples, exactly the number that’s needed to help literally create a huge shift in planetary healing. 

Let’s start with you. 

In this episode I’m going to:

• share exactly HOW I learned to be present to overwhelm and resolve it
• reveal WHAT helped me shift from unhappiness to peace in my marriage
• let out my #1 secret to help your children and your marriage make more special what seems ordinary, so that you can amplify love, closeness and connection

I know this is going to be helpful for you and I can’t wait to see you enjoy all the benefits that it’s going to bring to you so that you can experience the partnership you deeply want (even if it’s not currently the one you have).

Check it out.

“I want more connection…”

“Why must we be disconnected again…?”

“Love is supposed to be yummy and close, why is it so hard to connect in a good way?”

“This must mean he or she is not the right person for me, right?”

I’ve heard more versions of these complaints than you can imagine.

Since I started counseling people in 1985 (almost 33 years ago!) the problem and pain of disconnection and lack of closeness has been complained about and rallied against with empty results.

I’ve been there too.. in all the same ways you have; complaint, fight, distraction, dissociation, numbness, flight against the pain…I know what works and what fails to bring about connection.

But because I’ve been triumphant on how to resolve it for myself and my clients, because I now no longer struggle, I want to share with you from the very inside on exactly HOW to do this so you can get on to loving, being closer, more connected and happier in love.

On this very personal share podcast, I’m going inside my own relationship to share with you what I dealt with when it came to disconnection and how I;

• overcame disconnection struggles with this ONE thing you can start doing today so you can get close and connected in exactly the way you need and desire in your relationship.
• GREW sustainable closeness and connection in my marriage that has overcome the most difficult of disconnection issues.

Imagine your relationship no longer having the upsets, the ruptures and fizzles of connection it now has.. and being able to savour in the delicious closeness and feeling of connection you can have instead?

Imagine the long afternoons of sweet closeness, pillow talk and cheek to cheek connection while feeling safe to share what’s deep in your heart and world with each other?

I love enjoying this now.. but I didn’t use to receive it..and now you get to discover and journey with me to find out how I did it… because for real, you get to have it too.. That’s why you are here.. and we are going to do this.. and you are going to have it.. as long as you’re in my orbit;-), because I have the knowledge, skills, expertise, and personal experience to get you there!

Check it out.

We’ve been having SO much fun this week going deep into the love medicines that are needed to make you partnership flourish.

I know what it’s like for you, you get into stuff in your relationship and you can become contracted, hurt, wounded, injured, upset, annoyed, irritated, triggered, insecure and more.

It’s not fun feeling those things.. but I’ve got the exact lowdown on this week’s podcast on how I have dealt with every one of those and how to delicately bring in the things I am going to share with you, so you get what you need to grow deeper love in your relationship and flourish in connection, closeness and intimacy.

I’m going to share my very personal (and vulnerable) story of what I’ve been through, and show you how I turned it around into more love than you can imagine.

And you’re going to walk away feeling and knowing exactly what to do to as we discuss;

• The ONE thing you can do right now to create more healthy emotional connection between you and your partner
• The THING you don’t want to overlook, especially if there are lingering hurts or pains (no matter how small) that you or your partner still hold somewhere
• What to DO right now to close the disconnection gaps that are painful and feel loveless.

I absolutely KNOW you’re going to love this.. and it’s only going to help you grow MORE love in all the right places, the hurtin’ places, and all the leftover wounds or injuries that ever felt separate from the awesome love your entire relationship is meant to have.. so you can have even more hot sex, love and closeness.

Check it out.

Do any of these sound familiar?

“I want to have better sex, but don’t know what else to do.”

“I want hotter, wetter, more satisfying sex, and I’m not fulfilled.”

“I’m not sure if he/she is the right person for me.”

“We used to have hot sex all the time, and then it just fizzled.”

“When we wanted more hot sex, we ran into obstacles, and now we are shut down and don’t know what to do.”

Ever felt this way?

I know I have, and certainly have many of my clients, over and over. Thank God I faced my issues with awesome mentors and healers, and the things I’m going to share with you here, finally turned it all around. I know if you listen to this, and practice what I’m sharing, it absolutely will for you as well.

And because I want you to have the most epic, Hot Sex, Love and Closeness ever, I’m devoted to sharing what I KNOW is going to shift the needle for you with simple things you can start doing TODAY.

Let me share with you what to do WHEN

• You know you need to TURN around any struggle with sex into sizzling hotness and closeness, but don’t know where to start
• You need to TRANSFORM difficult and contracting body sensations, like I did, leftover from sexual abuse and violation so you can experience the epic, hot sex you need, even if you’ve been stuck for a looong time.
• You’re feeling deflated in your sex life, or bored, and you want to go to the next level so you can feel HOTTER, and more satisfied and fulfilled.

I KNOW you’re going to love this, feel benefit from it, and have no doubt that there are now simple things you can start to do straight away to get the sex hotter, happening and moving in the direction that your soul wants to go.

I held nothing back with you on this episode, got very real and vulnerable.. and shared intimate details from the depth of my personal experience and heart and soul exactly what to do so you can get going on cultivating this for yourself, TODAY.

Please don’t delay the pleasure that’s meant to be yours.

It’s your birthright!
Not a luxury!

Listen on in.

What do you do when you find yourself struggling with feeling loneliness in a relationship.

What do you do?

When you feel isolated and lonely, even if your partner is physically close by, what do you do?

When you feel that gnawing depth of pain in the pit of your stomach….and it feels tight, and your chest hurts, how do you act, or react?

Ouch..I know it’s really hard.. and it hurts…And I’m here to help you get through it, because you can and you will.

I want you to get I know human you are… as are we all, and I’m no stranger to the feeling of aloneness, isolation and loneliness. In fact, I’ve been exploring it, as have my clients to the depths for a lot of my life, and what truly helps it resolve, which is exactly why I decided to make this podcast for YOU

And the thing is, that you can get out of it and get free, so you can get back to Hot Sex, Love and Closeness and your loneliness can go from isolation to comfort and connection, and all the good things that come from that.

I’m thrilled to bring you a super sensitively curated transmission of healing on this weeks podcast because lonely or alone feelings are EXACTLY what we are going to address and I’m going to go inside my own marriage and mess ups, and share a vulnerable story and be open with you on what to do and HOW to do it.

I share how to;

• Begin getting the support you need to heal by doing THIS, (and it’s easy to start)
• The BEST Ways To Connect To Your Loneliness, So Conflict, Hurts, And Feelings of Disconnection Start To Dissolve and Heal
• The ONE Thing I Love To Do That Wipes Out Feelings Of Isolation And Restores Connection, Love and Hot Sex, (..and it’s simpler than you can say 1, 2, 3.)
• Bring In Spiritual Support To Your Relationship With Your Beloved So That You Can Feel Resourced, Supported, and Empowered To Repair Connection And Feel Close, Intimate and Snuggly Again.

I know you’ll love this so much and that it will support you in a big way.. I want you to have ALL the Hot Sex, Love and Closeness that you need and desire, because it makes life worth LIVING.

What do you do when you find yourself irritated or annoyed with a pattern that your kids are reflecting back to you?

When they’re pressing on our last good nerve and you’ve been feeling super distant and not connected with your partner?

When you feel upset with them, or wonder why it’s right when you’re trying to relax that they find the perfect way to trigger you and then you’re in chaos, while they’re laughing at the trigger show going on? How do they even know how to do that?

And then, like a true human, you lose your shit!

Aghh.. We’ve all been there.. but the good thing is that you can get out of it and get free, so you can get back to Hot Sex, Love and Closeness and the kids can get the best role modeling from you on how to do that, which is a huge gift you can learn how to give to them which they need and deserve.

I’m thrilled to bring you a super sensitively curated transmission of healing on this weeks podcast with you because this is EXACTLY what we are going to address and I’m going to go inside my own marriage and mess ups, and share a soul touching story about my son, to be open with you on what to do and HOW to:

• HOW to deal with the struggle of feeling disconnected from your partner especially when your children reflect your patterns back to you.
• THE # 1 THING you can teach your child as their role models to help them start adult relationship from a COMPLETELY different vantage point and eliminate the challenges that can plague them in the world of adult relationships.
• How to clean up the childhood wounds that are still healing, or family emotional dysfunction integrated in your relationship, so you can COMMIT to being healthy for you and your kids.
• The BEST thing to do when you’re worried that your relationship messed up your kid.
• My SECRET practices to heal the inner parts that are responsible for negative patterns in your partnership, so you can have a Healthy and Rockin’ Hot Sex, Love and Closeness Relationship.

I hope you love this so much.. I want you to have ALL the Hot Sex, Love and Closeness that you need and desire, because it makes life worth LIVING.

I’m very happy to share with you the newest podcast of Hot Sex, Love and Closeness for Couples.

In this episode, we connect on how to change the mess in your relationship into EXACTLY the medicine you need so that you can be closer, more emotionally intimate and connected!

And, even if it’s been off lately between you two, you’ll get the exact interpersonal low down on how to flip the switch so that you can get going having the Hot Sex, Love and Closeness, not only that you deeply crave, but also deeply deserve.

If you’re having a moment (or day or week) where you’re feeling the need for greater emotional connection and intimacy…

Or…Feeling pushed to the edge of your tolerance for disconnection between you two…

And you’re wondering what to do to bring in more connection…?

Listen in here.. this is what you’ll get;

• The secret to turning things around to deal with your disconnection problems.
• What to do when you want to make the mess of relationship into medicine.
• Want to create non-negotiable closeness and intimacy even with the mountains of trauma? DO THIS.
• What to do when you want to transform and create more sustainable connection with your partner.
• The two action items you can do straight away to deal with the cycle of disconnection between you and your partner.
• The best advice on teaming up as a couple to experience connection.

What’s one mess you’d love to be able to turn around this week? Anything from him picking the towels up off the floor to having more sex counts. Tell us!

Check it out.

I hope you enjoy it and love it as much as I do.

So you’ve finally decided that it’s no longer optional, or a ‘nice to have’ when it comes to LOVE.

Real love is NOT a luxury.

It’s a necessity.

So what’s keeping you from taking the steps to actually HAVE it?

This is EXACTLY what we’re chattin’ about on the podcast this week.

We’re getting

• practical
• direct
• and clear

On PRECISELY what to do.. and HOW to do it.

So…

If you’re done playing around.. and decided that ‘YES’, you get to have the love you so deeply need and desire.. and on this podcast episode we’re diving into:

• The #1 thing you can do to find and keep relationships thriving and successful.
• The secret for letting go of any shame or limitation in a relationship and stay open to learning.
• Want to experience deeper, powerful, thrilling, secure and embodied love? DO THIS!
• The *best advice* …so you can learn how to grow love as a resource to be there for you and your partner.
• The secret to cultivate a love that is actually indestructible.

Just getting one of these things lodged in your love life is potent.. but you get access to all of them; simple, easy, to the point.. and we have fun too.

Sound like what you need because you’ve already decided.. it’s THAT important.

And the good thing? This costs nothing .

And, in just 14 minutes of your time and something you can listen to while you’re driving to work, doing dishes, or at your kid’s soccer practice…and is so worth it when you consider what it’s costing you to not have the love in your life the way you NEED it.

Hope you love it as much as I do. Let me know what you think.. and what you want to see us talk about.